You should never obsess over a guy no matter what your heart is telling you or what your mind is trying to make you think. You have to know weather he is genuinely interested in you and a relationship (dating) or if his just going to end up USING you. There are millions upon millions of guys that will appreciate you for who you are and that you can have fun dating. Never hurt yourself by picking the ‘prickly rose’. Here are some things you should watch out for…
What To Avoid
If he is very easy around you and isn’t shy to put his hands on you then he is most probably a player so don’t get your hopes up about dating this guy or having any type of serious relationship with him because you will end up nothing but his candidate for a booty call or used in someway. If you hear negative stuff from your friends that his said to other people about you or if he hurts you, for example calls you a bitch in a non playful way, treats you like crap then you should definitely avoid the thought of dating him. If you notice that he only uses you for things, for instance money, information, sex or simply breaks up with you without any hesitation.
Pre Dating Tip #1 He Abuses you.
Pre Dating Tip #2 Flirts a lot with other girls.
Pre Dating Tip #3 Doesn’t pay attention to you.
Pre Dating Tip #4 Talks behind your back.
Signs That He Likes You
Now that we have covered what you need to avoid we can get onto the interesting dating tips which is how to know for sure if he really likes you. One of the easy signs to pick up is weather he always likes to tease you or make fun/jokes about you in a playful way. Majority of guys who like a girl won’t hesitate to make eye contact; he will do one of the following two - stare when he thinks you are not looking or if he is confident enough and you catch him he will hold your gaze.
* A guy who likes you and who would be interested to date you will tend to notice new things about you for instance, new shoes, new hair style and compliment you.
* A guy who likes you will who would pursue a relationship with you will act distracted when he’s around you. You’ll catch a glimpse of him from the corner of your eye looking at you but as soon as you look in the direction he will look away.
* He tries to make you laugh in anyway possible even if he might get hurt trying.
* He will stick up for you and always try to help you.
* He will try making you feel special.
* He always tends to find reasons to be near you or with you.
* Pays attention to you and wants your opinions.
* Does is face change from sad/stressed to a happier one when you walk by and say ‘hey’?
The only sure way to know if he really likes you is to take the next step and ask him, this way you don’t have to wonder! You might be curious about how to go about ‘asking him’ well there are a few ways. One way is being straight forward and asking him if he has feelings for you or the way I’d recommend would be asking him out on a date, it doesn’t have to be a date it can simply be a day/night at the movies with friends or just the two of you. Finally if he shows most of these signs then he most probably is interested in you and would be happy to date you - Ask him out on a date it’s ok for girls to ask guys out, in fact it’s a really good way of getting a date and one you will defiantly enjoy.
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